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I ended up living in Rental despite owning a Property in Singapore, and that is a good thing!

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I know, it's been a super long while since my last post. That's because I have given up on stocks with current drawdown of, so screw that liquidate all and put in the bank to rot.  Just Kidding, Equity is still my favourite investment class, just dealing with numbers, charts, probabilities, and the minimal need for HUMAN INTERACTION to profit! Unfortunately it's been painful to see the big drawdowns recently, with  the current inflation scare + Ukraine - Russia War, my Portfolio is REKT.   B ut fortunately I have holding power (Never invest with 'HOT' money) and convinced that I am invested in fundamentally strong company. So it'll be fine in the long run ( I hope).   Anyway I've been busy with my property journey of late, and I am glad I diversified into property. Being  middle income working class at my age, I essentially have 1 chance at any given time to own the right property with the help of BANK LOAN. And this window of opportunity diminish as I grow

How a Youtube video saved my Marriage - Gottman's Four Horsemen

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 This post is going to be slightly different than the other finance-related content. This will be a part of the Sense series.  This is about how I did not even realise that my relationship has been on the rocks for months (years?). The only clue? Wife has been very short tempered towards me recently, and every single mistakes made, or answers not to her satisfaction will end up with me getting scolded. It was very taxing mentally as I have to tread around carefully in her presence, to the point that I would rather limit our interaction when possible because I keep thinking this is just a phase that will blow over, kinda like PMS? As it turns out, I was dead wrong and we ended up having a confrontation. Personally, I have always put a lot of emphasis on the mastery of self; Both mentally and physically. Only by operating at my best mental and physical capacity, will I be able to achieve the best result on my quality of life and to the people I care about. Over the years, I am able to ma